Do you suggest that babies, toddlers, and primary-school aged children have an ability to "make choices" that will lift their families out of poverty? Do you reject the idea that being brought up in poverty causes structural and biological deficiencies that may affect social mobility? And since studies have shown that those brought up with wealth have a far greater chance of maintaining wealth in their own adulthood (and vice versa), do we conclude that there is a causal link between the amount of money your parents have and how lazy you will be later in life?
No. I don't reject those things at all. Poverty is definitely an obstacle that needs to be overcome. But overcoming obstacles takes effort. That may require effort over generations so that each new generation has more opportunities than their previous generation. Making excuses for failure makes failure easier.
I remember when I was a kid and my widowed mother with three boys would depend on our church to bring groceries. I remember my mother working two or three jobs, usually coming home as we were waking up. I remember buying a 50 cent bag of cheetos and a box of baggies and selling a dozen bags of cheetos at school for a dime each so I could buy lunch.
So dont' tell me about poverty. I lived it. I know about safety nets and what they are good for.
I remember pumping gas, waiting tables and making pizzas between classes so I could graduate from a good State school while paying in-state tuition. Yes, it took me eight years to get my 4 year degree. And yes, I know tuition is higher now than it was. But I earned it and I am proud of it. And I do know kids today that are working and going to school without running up tons of debt.
I know other kids that chose a different path. They thought they were cool because they dropped out of school. Some of them even got a job. The lucky ones are still working that same job and complaining about how the rich keep getting richer and they are still poor.
Yeah, being born into poverty sucks. Some people are happy to use that as an excuse. It takes work to get out of poverty. But if you don't have to put in the effort, you will never get out of it.