Pardon my being blunt, but that's a stupid question. If a voter doesn't think a candidate gives a shit about them and their views, they're generally not going to vote for them.
I'm sure it does sound stupid to you, and all the rest of you leftists who look to government for everything. Let me give you a hint.... they don't give a shit about you....no matter what they say, you are irrelevant to a politician. The only thing they care about is your vote and your money in the form of taxes and campaign contributions. Period... end of story.
I don't want politicians and bureaucrats building up my self-esteem, or validating my views. I want them to do the jobs we elected them to do, nothing more, nothing less. Ideologically, I want them doing far, far less for me (and everyone else) than they feel they need to do today. I want them out of my life, not hindering my liberty.
No doubt that is very hard for you to comprehend....but make no mistake...none of them care about you personally, or anyone else for that matter. When they say anything to the contrary...they are lying.