I have often wondered why many of us conservatives keep quiet about or political beliefs while amongst a bunch of liberal that have no such filter.
I have ususally thought that conservatives actually respect their fellow human beings and don't want to say things that they know will hurt them. I suspect even Number 7 doesn't tell liberals how he feels, face to face.
But there is another reason that I have always know applies to me, but it suddenly dawned on me that it may apply to a lot of other people too.
There are a lot of small and medium business owners. I owned a small business (around 20 employees) and we worked hard to find and keep loyal customers. I knew many of my customers were liberals, but that never effected my business relationship with them.
But in 2015, a woman business owner and friend of my in-laws attended a Trump Rally and managed to get her picture in the paper. My MIL was outraged and vowed never to do business with her again. In fact, she loudly told everyone she knew not to go to her store. My MIL is quite influential in this town.
Two years later, the woman was out of business. She said that after that rally, her business dropped off precipitously and she started getting hate mail and bad on-line reviews about her political affiliation.
I was recently at a Rotary meeting (mostly business owners, but now they let anybody in). When the topic turned to Trump, it was obvious that the business owners started getting nervous and looking to see who was listening. They changed the subject. Not because they were embarrassed but because they were intimidated.
I just finally wanted to get that off my chest.
I think the issue is a little bit of both (respect for others’ opinions as well as fear of backlash in business/personal matters.)
In the first case, I don’t generally engage in political discussions unless it is provoked or invited. I have lib friends, and they know they Im conservative, and we usually just don’t go there. I don’t think that’s dishonest. I do think it’s a matter of mutual respect for the person, even if I don’t respect their issues.
I will engage when I am vilified either personally or as a member of a group (I.e. when someone I know says anyone who supports Trump is a closet racist, or something similarly offensive.). I am tired of getting pushed around and caricatured.
As for business, I am a CPA in a large firm. Left or Right, very few of us show our cards in the business environment, unless we know where our clients reside. For example, I’ve had two clients host Wisconsin Governor walker to their plants to highlight successes in Wisconsin manufacturing growth, for example.
I remember your discussions on your business back in the POA days.