If a majority of citizens feel that the Federal Government is tyrannical and doesn't serve them it will likely cease to exist. People elect the politicians in this country. to some extent that' s what you're seeing in Trump. and outsider, "burn the house down" candidate. If people all feel the way you do he'll not only get elected POTUS, but he will not be the last.
Thankfully very few people feel as you do. Wyoming has a shade over half million people in it. There are more than that in my one-horse town.
So the individual doesn't count, only the collective. Well, I shouldn't be surprised.
I didn't elect Pelosi, Reid, Boxer, Feinstein, et al. Neither did the vast majority of citizens. But we have to live with their edicts.